The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 12:43 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2025
Your H may be a "great guy" because he cooks and cleans and treats you well.
But he’s cheated often.
Just remember serial killer Ted Bundy was a charming guy too. Came across as a nice well mannered young man. Wouldn’t hurt a fly.
Please don’t overlook the fact that your nice guy Husband has cheated more than once, more than twice.
Don’t let the other stuff blind you as to who and what he is.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 12:49 AM on Monday, June 23rd, 2025
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 1:58 AM on Monday, June 23rd, 2025
"As for you shared business, I can tell you that someone who is deceptive, impulsive, and engages in high-risk behavior (such as hooking up with strippers and having one-night stands) is not someone you can trust as a partner, either. Cheating doesn't happen in a vacuum; it's part of a larger pattern of behavior."
I found this to be true that EXWH’s cheating was part of a larger pattern of behavior. That did not bode well for me financially.
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
