Topic is Sleeping.
InkHulk (original poster member #80400) posted at 8:29 PM on Thursday, October 19th, 2023
Well said, Sisoon. Thanks guys, I think I got what I needed here on this one. Peace.
People are more important than the relationships they are in.
Vocalion ( member #82921) posted at 10:07 PM on Thursday, October 19th, 2023
I second that. Very well described Sisoon I cannot see how there can possibly be any type of meaningful amends made to the betrayed spouse. My wife recognizes that she has absolutely no way of compensating me for the half century of deception, lies and obfuscation, nor for the paternity fraud she maintained through those five decades There 's no avenue to restore or compensate for the dégradation of the quality of our marriage caused by her selfish extramarital carnal desires I can only see and value her return to an authentic preaffair state and offer her grace in considering the bill.paid in full. The rest is the ongoing work to reclaim true emotional intimacy..
When she says you're the only one she'll ever love, and you find out, that you're not the one she's thinking of,That's when you're learning the game.Charles Hardin ( Buddy) Holly...December 1958
Topic is Sleeping.
