I'm going through PURE HELL right now, after discovering a month ago,that my husband has cheated on me again in 2024 for a year.
There was a 7 years gap between the first (emotional A) to the second (phisical A). different woman.
It took me about 4 years to heal from the first A.
I did the work, but H didn't, cause we didn't know there will be another one. We were sure he learned the lesson.
HUGE MISTAKE!
Now H is going to IC, knowing there's a problem with him. He's determined to work on himself, but I'm spiraling like a crazy person on the first affair "discovering new details" (or maybe realizing new things), and I feel feral!
I'm raging like crazy, I HATE my H so much, I can explode.
I feel miserable. I feel like each day is worse than the other, cause we talk about everything, but he is completely unable to give me clear answers. I know he doesn't have all the answers yet, but it's like he is completely unaware of his emotions or way of thinking. It drives me insane.
I don't want to lose this marriage, cause we are so very good together. And we have 2 little kids, and a 17 years of history together.
I need hope, and advise. I need your help, please!!!
